THE Couples COURSE
This immersive, 2.5-day course is designed for committed couples seeking to deepen their relationship, enhance communication, and reignite intimacy.
What the Couples Course is about
This workshop offers practical tools and transformative experiences to help you and your committed partner thrive together. It’s led by Martha Borst, a master coach with over 45 years of experience, and is limited to eight couples. The Self Mastery Basic Course is a prerequisite for this course.
Course Date | January 15 - 17, 2027
Friday, January 15th | 5:00 pm - 10:00 pm
Saturday January 16th | 9:00 am - 7:00 pm
Sunday, January 17th | 9:00 am - 7:00 pm
Investment: $1695 per couple
In this course you will
Enhanced Communication: Learn powerful skills to foster open, honest, and productive conversations.
Conflict Resolution: Gain techniques to navigate disagreements constructively and heal past wounds.
Rekindled Intimacy: Explore exercises to deepen emotional and physical connection.
Trust Building: Develop strategies to strengthen trust and mutual respect.
Shared Vision: Create a collaborative plan for your future together.
Joyful Connection: Engage in activities that bring fun and playfulness back into your relationship.
Highly recommended
Holy sh*t! We are so grateful for this extension of SMT! We both went through The Trilogy separately and having a workshop where we got to have 100% of the focus be on our relationship was a game changer. We’ve always had a loving relationship but now we have a better understanding of how the other person operates and, WOW, that has created so much lovingkindness when things feel tough. The many tools we now have in our shared tool box are the pavers for a deeply connected and loving path forward.
Ashley & Michael
"Our relationship was strong, but we had recurring tensions and topics we avoided because we struggled to find common ground. The Couples Course allowed us to identify what wasn't working and gave us the tools we needed to create a win/win in places we didn't think that was possible. Spending an entire weekend dedicated solely to our relationship allowed us to fully align in every area of our lives. We both felt deeply heard and understood. It was more than a course—it was a retreat, a powerful reset that fueled us into an incredible new chapter. It's been just over a year and we're doing better than ever."
Jana & John
"I honestly wish we had taken this course years ago. It’s one of those things that makes you go, why didn’t anyone teach us this sooner? No matter how long you’ve been together, it helps you get aligned in a way that just makes everything smoother — more joy, less butting heads, more fun, and a deeper kind of connection.
It’s not about fixing something that's broken. It’s about making what you have way better — clearer communication, more compassion, more understanding. The stuff that makes a relationship actually feel good and sustainable. It gave us tools, language, and practices that we use all the time now, and the shift has been real.
If you're even a little curious, just do it. It’s one of the most valuable things we’ve done for our relationship."
Oliver
FAQ
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It’s a very intimate experience, with only 10 couples. There will be no more than 20 participants.
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At Martha’s home about 15 minutes outside of Healdsburg, CA. You will receive the exact address after you enroll in the program.
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The investment for this 2.5 day course is only $1695 (only $847 per person).
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No. Participants are asked to pack their lunch. There is a refrigerator and microwave for participants to use.
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This is a quick moving, highly interactive experience. In order to accommodate all kinds of learning styles, there is a great deal of variety in the presentation of materials. There are some lecture-ettes, interactive and immersive exercises with another person or in a small group, sharing, discussions, questions, closed-eye processes, writing and lots of music.